Thinking of taking your relationship to the next level?

There will come a time in any relationship when you start thinking about taking it to the next level. Of course, it will be different for all the different types of couples. For some the next step is sexual intimacy, for others marriage, and for others it may be the point of deciding to live together. But no matter what your next step is, you need to start evaluating everything about your relationship with your partner before you take the next big step.

While this may seem extremely easy to some, it can actually be a very difficult thing to achieve. Here are a couple of reasons why coming up with an honest assessment can be a very difficult thing to do.

1) If you wait too long to honestly assess your partner’s value and strength to begin with, you may already be too involved to be able to come to an unbiased view of the weak areas in your relationship and your partner.

After you have fallen deeply in love with your partner, you will only see the good things and make excuses for the not so good things and the areas of your partner that may be an unhealthy type of relationship. Most will just turn on their blinders and pretend everything is rosy.

2) During the first days of the relationship and during the ‘honeymoon phase’ both are well guarded and are cautious with everything they do or say. They only allow their partner to see what they want them to see. Some actually try to hide their true personality.

Either way, this trend can make a truly honest evaluation of the association quite difficult.

Without a doubt, the most important thing you can do is try to have a safe, secure, and enjoyable relationship and be able to make an honest and candid assessment of the strength of your partnership and your partner early on.

It is also very important to take your time to evaluate everything. Too many people, especially women, ignore warning signs just because they are afraid of being alone. They think no one else will love them the same way, so they end up staying and being treated badly just so they don’t have to be alone.

If you really want a very strong relationship, make sure you are strong first. Only you can make yourself happy, you can expect or expect others to make you happy. By being a happy and fulfilled person who surrounds himself with people and activities that make him happy and confident, then he won’t let others treat him badly and he won’t want to stay in a bad relationship with someone who doesn’t. I didn’t respect you

Few people really evaluate their relationships and that’s sad because everyone really needs to do this. If you do this relatively early in the relationship, it will be easier to get out if necessary. Plus, the sooner you do this, the less likely you’ll be looking at it through rose-colored glasses. It can make a world of difference between being in a healthy and fun loving relationship or a potentially unhealthy abusive relationship.