How to have pleasurable sex during pregnancy

With a clean bill of health and tons of advice from your OB/GYN, sex during pregnancy is a green light. Intercourse is safe for both mother and baby. There is a mucous plug in the cervix and amniotic fluid in the uterus to protect your baby from infection. The uterus also has muscles strong enough to withstand the impact of intercourse.

However, the experience will have to change, as the basics of the baby’s bulk and the comfort of the mother must be taken into account. Sex during pregnancy is hampered by the harsh reality that you have to make a commitment to make it a mutual feeling. Sexual positions have to be adapted to make things as comfortable as possible for the mother.

As you move through the quarters, positions should remain innovative and adventurous. In the first trimester, for example, women are well lubricated and experience a surge of hormones. As a consequence, libido increases and anything can happen in this period.

The following positions can be an amazing pregnancy sex experience all year round:

• you on top

In a seated position, facing your partner, you will be in control. This position allows you to control the depth of penetration and reduces pressure on your belly. This position makes the experience more intimate as it is easy to caress her breasts and find her weak spots.

• spoon

It’s a “lazy” position where you lie next to his belly kissing your back. It offers a relaxed, less stressful experience with comfortable, shallow penetration. You can use pregnancy pillows to change posture and increase penetration.

• doggy style

This is the most comfortable position for the belly. It’s a way to spice things up without being too exotic. You can use some pillows to support your belly and pelvis and reduce pressure on your knees. You can also try this on the couch and use your arms for support.

• edge of bed/sofa

Since the missionary position will put pressure on the belly, the side of the bed serves to modify the missionary. With your knees bent, lift your hips and arch your back with a pillow for comfort. This position allows for a greater degree of penetration.

What is safe and unsafe for sex during pregnancy?

The rules here lean towards how comfortable the mother is. There is no guideline on which positions to avoid, but deep penetration does tend to cause discomfort, especially during the third trimester. Oral sex is completely fine for all sectors. The only condition is that your partner never blows air into the vagina, as this could cause an embolism. Anal sex is fine too, but you should practice hygiene and wash/change condoms before moving from anus to vagina to prevent transfer of fecal bacteria. A lot of lubrication should be used to avoid bleeding that could put the baby at risk.

Does sexual desire decrease during pregnancy?

During pregnancy, the release of hormones increases. Blood flow to the reproductive organs also increases. This could cause increased tenderness of the breasts and vagina. The increased blood flow can also cause congestion of the genitals and therefore a more intense sensation. Cervical mucus can also serve to increase lubrication. During the second trimester, also known as the honeymoon phase, libido increases. Your sex spots also tend to be more sensitive.

What to do to spice up sex during pregnancy?

In case your sex drive plummets, you can always spice it up and get the sexiness back. There is a plethora of maternity lingerie that will turn that bump into something of an attraction. You can also try other methods of arousal, such as using a vibrator or dildo to get aroused. Be open to your partner’s suggestions and keep things moving.

Having an orgasm is not illegal or dangerous. The contractions along with orgasms are very short and will not affect the uterine wall.

conclusion

It is imperative to understand that bodies are different and experiences can differ. While some may experience increased libido, others may experience decreased sexual desire. Individual comfort levels also come into play, as some may be more adventurous and acrobatic, and others prefer a more relaxed approach. You should not try to have sex if your partner has an STD or a history of an STD when you have placenta previa, vaginal bleeding, or a shallow cervix.