Easy and effective ways to improve your communication skills so you get what you really want

Do you lack communication skills?

Are you tired of not getting what you want because you don’t know how to express it?

Do you often feel misunderstood?

In this article, I’ll walk you through some motivating and effective ways to communicate. After you finish reading this page, you will feel like you have a new positive and productive way to communicate with your loved ones and/or business prospects.

Here are some of my simple yet effective communication skills that will improve your relationships and increase your business.

Effective communication skills in all your relationships

Whether you’re in a relationship with a significant other, a family member, or a business prospect, understanding how to express your intentions effectively can make all the difference in the world.

My secret weapon is observation and the ability to tune in and feel someone’s personality. What I mean here is to feel your vibration of energy.

When you start to really pay attention, you’ll be amazed at the important information you pick up. You find out what makes the other person tick. You can find out if they respond to your energy level; if not, you can adjust that. You can find out what is important to them and what they like and dislike.

If you know the answers to these important questions, you will have gained valuable information about the person and how to use communication skills with them.

By examining the first point, we are looking at what moves the person. How do they operate in life? Are quite? Do they love to talk? Are they optimistic? Do they move fast or slow? Really take into account what kind of person you’re interacting with.

If it’s someone you’ve known for a long time, you’ll want to pay extra pay attention to these details. You may feel like you know the person so well that you don’t need to try any more. It is exactly the opposite. This person may have changed and you are still operating with old ideas about who they are. Sign up and see if that might be one of the reasons you’re having communication issues to begin with. You may be operating under past assumptions.

A perfect example of poor communication skills is with my mother, who for a long time kept responding to me as if I was still fifteen years old. She was telling me that she doesn’t like this or that you can’t do that. She would think, “What? Who is she talking about? I’ve been on such and such for years, how come she doesn’t know this?” One of us, if not both of us, is not communicating very well. She still thinks that I like the same things and that I have the same thoughts that I had when I was fifteen.

Whose fault is it? Both really, I never took the time to let her into my world as it is now and she never asked me to. Since then, our relationship has improved a lot, we communicate better now than ever, but it wasn’t always like this. We both had to make an effort to get to know each other today and let go of the past.

Finding out what’s important to someone is really about asking questions. Yes, a very important part of communication skills is asking questions. If you know what the other person likes and doesn’t like, you’ll know how to talk to them so that they respond positively. That doesn’t mean you adjust what you like or don’t like, it means you communicate with them on their level.

When I’m in any kind of sales situation, I always ask as many questions as I can so I know how to present my idea or service in a way that’s valuable to them. The only way to know what is valuable to someone is to ask questions. They will tell you exactly what they like and what they don’t like. It’s up to you to listen.

Your ability to become a chameleon will be particularly beneficial in strengthening your communication skills.

I have found that people feel more comfortable with other people who are like them. If you get on the same beat as them, you will bond with them. People respond very well to similarities. Have you ever heard someone say, “Oh, you’re just like me.” We all seek what is the same in order to share that common bond. When you bond with them, you create a great starting point for developing great communication skills.

When I am with someone I allow their energy to merge with mine, if they need a boost my energy will help lift them up, if I need a calming effect I allow their energy to calm me down and together there will be a great balance. Be aware of this the next time you are with someone and you will see what it means to merge with their energy instead of fighting it or moving away from it.

The last and most important point to make about effective communication skills is listening. If you listen more than you speak when it’s your turn to speak, you’ll know that what you’re going to say is going to have an impact.

You’ll know what turns them off and you’ll know what they need to hear to close the deal. People will tell you exactly what they want and what they don’t. If you answer what they are looking for, they will buy what you sell.

Take the time to develop your communication tools and you will see the world open up to you.

I wish for you all the success and happiness that the Universe has to offer!

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People may forget what you say, but they will never forget how you made them feel.