Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back? Make me PIN for you!

After a breakup, it’s common for women to try to reach out and extend the olive branch to their exes too soon, which only makes things worse. If she wants her ex-boyfriend back, she will have to give him time and space, and this means having absolutely no contact with him for a while. This may not be the advice she wants to hear, but it’s the truth. Your ex doesn’t want to see you right now: he’s hurt, confused, angry, and who knows what else. Trying to win your ex boyfriend back right now will be nothing but painfully unproductive.

You may be wondering how I can be so sure that this is the correct course of action. My answer is, show me a time when doing the things listed above was successful. You’re going to be searching for a while to find that one exception to the rule. Pushing it too far too soon will only ruin your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back.

Making the mistake of constantly trying to get in touch with your ex only does one thing: it makes him want to talk to you LESS. Over time, being away from your ex will become easier to bear. Giving him the space he needs is a MUST if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. You can’t screw your way back into a relationship, you shouldn’t even try.

Don’t forget the fact that YOU are also suffering right now. Breakups are painful for both parties no matter what, so BOTH of you need the space to let go of negative feelings and start reminiscing about the fun times you had together. Once the anger is gone, both of you will have the ability to really miss being with each other. The time apart will make your ex more likely to contact you, because chances are he’s been missing you like crazy. He will wonder why you stopped calling and will try to get back into your life once and for all.