Appearance Matters in Nonverbal Interview Communications

We have always heard that “looks don’t matter” or “it’s what’s inside that counts”. Well, while this may be true, when entering an interview setting, the first rule of thumb is that appearance does matter.

Research shows that the vast majority of communications between individuals, especially those meeting for the first time, are through non-verbal cues. Non-verbal communication is very broad in nature and ranges from appearance, attitude, how one carries oneself, smiling, body language, eye contact, breathing patterns, laughter, voice, and speech patterns. The list is one, but we will only focus on those relevant to participating in a stellar interview.

When meeting someone who may become your potential boss, hiring manager, or influential assistant, a positive and appropriate first impression is vital. Basic assumptions such as good hygiene must be given, clean shave, clean clothes, clean body.

However, the style of clothing, hair style, outerwear, shoes, even umbrellas, handbags, briefcases, and purses must be appropriate for the position for which you are being interviewed. Nothing will hurt your chances more than walking into an interview wearing flip-flops, a wrinkled shirt, an old stain on your tie, or a handbag with glitter on the side. You want to give the right impression that you are serious about the interview, want the job, and are the right person for the company.

Looking at the dress code of a company you’re interviewing for is a great way to find the right clothes for the job. Dress codes vary so this is definitely something to check. The tall style is fine, even sought after in some industries, but keep it conservative for the interview. Nothing should be worn that is too short, too tight, or too dressy; it could intimidate you or present you as over or under qualified. After you get the job, you can decide how far to expand your wardrobe.

In addition to your clothing, other areas to check during interview preparation include items you carry like a purse, wallet, and even an umbrella. Make sure your entire outfit is in line with the professional image you’re trying to convey. Come to the interview prepared with a notepad, a quality pen, extra copies of your resume, and all other relevant documentation. Prepare to portray the professional you are who is confident, prepared, and capable of handling the job.

Other non-verbal communication skills to sharpen include; Presenting a firm handshake, making and maintaining eye contact, walking confidently, and displaying a pleasant demeanor are all ways to benefit your first impression. Strive to find something that “connects” you and the employer. Look around the office, does he like deep sea diving, chess or golf like you? Mention it! This will help break the ice and bring emotional connections to the image, and help you be remembered.

Like everything in life, you have to work for anything worth having. If this job is worth having, go for it! Make it happen: You know you’re right for the job, all you have to do is convince the employer. The look and proper preparation is the key!!